Originally Posted by CAROLJ
Missy don't worry.
In church today the minister spoke about futile thinking. That is thinking that doesn't help anything. He said we need to look at things in a positive light.`
So look at what you have done on the positive side this month. Stayed on your diet most of the time. Had a good vacation and stayed on your diet most of the time. Helped and encouraged people (me) on this thread. Shared your pain and joy with others to help them. So no matter if you lost, gained or maintained, you are still a winner.
Thank you so much Carol. That was so sweet and true. It just feels so scary to think that I work so hard and might not have any results or maybe if I have a gain this weigh in then maybe they will not let me have the surgery. I am going to work hard to try and think the way you have suggested. I think it will help me more than the way I have been thinking.
I posted that picture of my old bra vs the new one and after I hit send I got worried that y'all are going to think less than me for being so large to start with and blah blah blah. I am just going to have to knock that off. It is not helping me lose the weight.
So, I am just going to pray and leave it to God.
Missy