When my MIL died,4yrs, my husband wanted a lap quilt I had made her, placed in the coffin for viewing. It was very simple,a printed panel w/ the words of "AMAZING GRACE", the song, on it, that he'd found while we were vacationing! She called herself "AMAZING GRACE". We washed & ironed so it would look nice. My youngest asked "if it had to be buried w/her."She was in her mid twenties, we retrieved it and she keeps it as a memento of gramma!