Ladies, there some other things to do to help you. Some foods contain natural estrogen. Anything soy - soy milk, soy beans, other beans and lentils. There are some other products that may help, including some creams you get at the health food store. It is worth it to give it a try. Many ladies find that a B complex supplement.
Hormone replacement therapy may also help you feel better. It does have side effects, but some of them are good. HRT only increases your chances of developing breast cancer is tiny amount. Especially if you do not smoke. For some ladies this is the only relief they get.
If you are truly miserable as some of you sound, you probably should talk to a doctor. Don't make yourself continue to suffer. Do a little research on line and you will find all kinds of things that helped other people. I found a vegetarian diet very helpful, but I couldn't have survived without HRT after my hysterectomy.