Like most areas of my life -
I've found MOST people are nice MOST of the time here.
I felt I was misunderstood a couple of times, (and I had absolutely no malice intended) but if those are the biggest glitches in my life - life is still very good.
There are some things and people "that are what they are" - and they may feel that way about me, too.
Let live and live. Learn and live.
I think it's because of the over-all pleasantness of this board/forum that when unpleasantness/nastiness shows up, it does throw us because it is so not the usual behavior here.