Not shame on you, not only can we not all be the same, who wants to be. I say do what you enjoy! If making tops and setting them aside is what makes you happy, then do it. Don't stress over the whole process, there are so many options of how to quilt, techniques and styles. That's why I say only do what you want when you want. This is fun stuff, life is too short to get worried about quilting. Just enjoy