I think it is simply not fair if we sign up and don't send. As Soon as I sign up I start looking for things to include in my package. I try to get it out early. It is just polite to let the sender know you have received your package too. Send an E mail if for some reason you can't send on time. Even an e mail won't spoil the surprise in the package!! I sure hope everyone gets their goodies, This is so much fun!!