What you feel in your heart is what counts. I believe in lots of things like that. I get a rose near, or on, my Dad's birthday( Aug.20) on the rose bush that was his. This is a rose that only blooms in the Spring. I have roses for a week in late May, then nothing until the week of his birthday. As my Mom and siblings have died, I am getting roses that seem to show they are there with Dad, and coming to say hello to me. I don't know if that is really what it is, but I believe it and I watch for those roses. It leaves me with a real good feeling!