As my dear grandmother use to say....."don't get in the mud and fight with the pigs, they like it and you'll only get dirty." I agree with others here on the board....report this issue to someone of authority (who won't buy into her crap) and post a negative post to craigs list warning others to beware of the crazy lady. I'm sorry you've had to go through a situation like this. I too am a very trusting person and always expect others to be honest and trustworthy as well. The few bad apples out there leave a bitter taste in our mouths! Big hugs to you!