I think that everyone realizes that stuff happens and we aren't able to log on for a while, etc....I think that what is getting people upset, is that they see the person they sent a package or swap to, posting on the board in other places and to other links, but they haven't let them know thier swap arrived. In that case, it is kind of insensitive to be posting all over the board but you can't let a person know you received their package. IMHO :)