Hi, I had that same problem. I bought a stand from Connecting Threads.They have 2 kinds,one expensive[$39] and the other around $11.Has a heavy base. Just last Sat. I seen a cheaper one at Handcocks and I am waiting for a sale. It is not with a heavy base like the one from CT but I plan on putting rice or something heavy in the base and cover it for the weight. Or use the cup idea.I didn't have luck with that cause the thread was not high and would get tangled. Good luck.