Thread: Rude quilters
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Old 08-31-2010, 06:18 PM
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moonwolf23
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Originally Posted by puzzler
I once went to a sit and chat event at a local quilt shop, where I saw a woman who immediately reminded me of a homeless person. I thought she might have come in off the street for some food and coffee. Thankfully, I kept my thoughts to myself. While shopping in the store after the session, I learned that the woman had a PhD in engineering and was one of the store's best quilt designers. I would never have been rude, but I felt guilty about my poor snap judgment. Thanks for reminding me that all of us are sensitive--and rightly so--about people who judge us and treat us unfairly.
On the other hand, what if she were a homeless person. While it may have been rude to ask, wouldn't it have been kinder to do so, to see if you could have offered help?

Personally, I would not have thought that rude, but a greater kindness.
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