I've heard things like that are why Grandma's aren't moms. When I had my dd at 45 someone sent me a joke about an older woman that had a baby. I don't remember all of it but it was something about some friends coming to see her and wanting to see the new baby. She said, "In a minute." Every 10 or 15 minutes they remind her that they want to see the baby and she keeps saying, "In a minute." Finally one of her friends asked if she was trying to avoid showing them her child for some reason. She answered, "No, I laid her down for a nap, forgot where I put her and I figure soon she'll wake up and I'll hear her cry."