its give and take. i have given up obsessive reading, gaming on computer.
i hand quilt so i'm still with my family during much of my off work hours.
i've taken the opportunity to make a beautiful queen sized quilt for my son and daughter in law. babie quilts for my grandsons. (i'm still new at quilting)
now i'll start on a quilt for my 80 some year old parents who are living with me and as the 3 of us select the fabric i am both giving and taking.