I know what u mean also. I made a lap quilt for my best friends daughter, then a few years later i attended their garage sale and they had it out to sell. I took it back and now wonder what they did with all the other things ivew made and given them, embroidery, silk embroidery, paper tole and folk art that took me a long time to do. Ive also thought what other people have done with my handmade gifts and wonder if theyve got rid of them. I told all my family that if they ever want to move on what ive made them to give it back so i could pass it on to my own kids. That really hurt.