I fully agree. PatriceJ you have such a great way of stating things, you just proved my point to my reply that you guys take care of our "home" and us. YOu went a step further to explain why it isn't annouced because it adds fuel to the fire. Thank you again so much for clarifying. I think your statement settled the whole thing in a nutshell. By the way, I know what your "real" occupation is...group counselor-right? HUGS BY the way fellow members, I in no way meant Admin or moderators were the ones who were not the truthful ones.