Fuail, isn't that the truth. Our DD is a teacher and only making near poverty level pay back east. But she always says the same thing, has to be thankful that she has a job. Their school district hasn't had a raise for 3 yrs now. Seems like couples can't make it now without both working. It's a shame, I sure wonldn't have wanted to miss out on my little ones, but now seems like it can't be helped. Bet she is glad Gramma is there to help out!