Well the ladies are easy...they like things to put on their doors, little things for their beds, pillow cases, pretty bags to tie to walkers or wheelchairs, etc. Men are a bit more difficult...not as interested in "pretties" but still need things for their wheelchairs, walkers, etc. Thank you for doing this....my father had to spend the last few months in a NH and those little things that the churches did for him were so appreciated.