Yes, I too evaluate my relationships on quilt-worthiness. Not sure what the criteria are - they are a bit subjective, however, when a person is ON the list - that's a good thing. Recently, I had a falling out with a person who has been in my life for a long time and the way I realized it, was that she is no longer on the quilt-worthy list. What's worse, she will never be able to get on there.
As for myself, I enjoy the process of quilting whether for me or for others. So having a quilt is not as important - but I do have a cuddle quilt that has been loved almost to death.