One of my questions would be, What has this person done for me unselfishly and not expecting something in return. I have a family member (in-law) who had received a nice hand crocheted baby blanket. It wasn't her taste, immediately after sending a thank you she took the blanket to Good Will. I was speechless, and never forgot that. Now we all know what went into that baby blanket and while it may not have been her taste, it could at least have draped over a chair for decoration. Anyhow, when it comes time to do Christmas sewing I battle with myself as to what to make for this person that won't end up being trashed or given away.