Originally Posted by deema
When I make something for someone (I've been making blankets for every baby I know since...gosh, since my oldest was still baking!), I make it to be used. I know every baby blanket I've made has been puked/pooped/peed/slobbered on, destroyed and repaired and *loved* right down to the last thread. I just recently started making anything bigger than a baby blanket, and will be gifting a large-ish quilt to my IL's. I know they will love it. And I know my mother in law will care for it gently and cherish it, because she is just that kind of person. But I don't expect my quilts to be preserved...I expect them to be loved. Even if it's by my IL's dog. I make and give things with love...all I hope for is that the recipient will love it too, even if it's "loved to death".
That said, I won't be making quilts for anyone outside of family and friends until they're paying for materials and time. This is an expensive and time consuming hobby.
I made a flannel quilt for my new granddaughter. I told my daughter that she could just throw it on the floor and put the baby on it, then it could be washed whenever she wanted. They live half way across the country. She sends me pictures from her iphone daily with my granddaughter always sitting on that quilt. I makes me happy that the quilt is being used and I have pictures to prove it.