Are you quilt-worthy?
One requirement: Will you cherish the gift quilt as something that came from my heart and hands especially for you? (The last quilt I gave to someone is being loved and used by the siblings of the baby it was gifted for. It has become their "Magic Carpet" and is giving them joy, so all is good!)
I don't think any non-quilter can truly appreciate all the hours and $ that go into a handmade quilt, but they can appreciate the sentiment that comes with it. On the other hand, if they would appreciate a "store-bought" gift, then by all means, that's what they'll get!