I've been sitting here reading the posts and thinking. My pop told me as a young child "you should never give anything with intentions" Thats hard to sink in sometimes. Giving is self serving, you shouldn't want anything in return othr than the fact that you could give unselfishly. Hard to live by. We live every day giving to those we love expecting in return respect, love, undrstanding, when really all we need is knowing that we gave. I can't seem to do this I find myself "judging" as we all do. I challenge each of you to give to that one person that you just don't think is quilt worthy.