Thanks everyone, you have made me feel that I belong and that I am sane; Sometimes anyway. I sooooooooo often put something someplace (because I just know I will remember where I put it), of course I do not find it for ages. Now I have a new way of finding stuff; first, I ask St Anthony, then I ask God, and then I ask my in heaven husband. I hope you believe this, I find what I am looking for each time and one the same day.