thanks P.. didn't think you were criticizing. seems to me that since shes already recieved my gift, and my note she knows who I am.. and I know who she is ( just can't remember her name is all ).. no prob.. will just trust that our post office here was doing their job, instead of losing our packages from this end like they have done so often ( trust me, my hubby worked at our PO for over 30 years, nefore he retired, and I know they have lost things supposed to be mailed out, as well as having packages never arrive to destinations)..