Originally Posted by lynnie
Also, i let the cat pick me, not tme pick the cat. I sat in the room and waited for a kitty to come sit in my lap. that way, i knew he wanted me too
That might be the best way - I think you were wise.
We've been feeding a stray for about three months now. He is getting almost demanding about getting food, but no way is he going to let any of us touch him. But we are still trying!