I think we need to wait until she is ready.
She has a lot of sadness to work through, I am sure, not to mention all the daily need items that she will have to take care of: insurance, a new place to live, have to keep working while setting up a whole new life ... it is a blessing and a curse, I am sure.
I wouldn't want to rush her into the quilting before she really needed it.
Most important that she know we are here for when she is ready to set herself back up. <wave>