Suzanne, don't stress over the swap, people are going to do what they are going to do..you are doing a great job keeping tabs on those who don't want to play fair..I could not enjoy the gift I received if I had not sent. We just need to weed them out. Can't wait to get home to see what is in that box that MistyMarie has sent me..I went to Big Lots yesterday and was surprised to see a thimbleberries calendar for next year and fabric fat quarters with spools of thread on them..you betcha I picked up doubles..:o)