my mom also died too young at 69. she quilted and sewed. I have never sewn anything but wanted to quilt. when i quit work 3 yrs ago, the first thing I wanted to do (besides sleep in) was learn to quilt. Mom wasn't here anymore so I turned to my church lady friends and other resourses and learned. You are so lucky to have your mom and God bless you both. All I can say is ENJOY!