When I moved to a new town, I joined a group. However, I was unaware at first that they had a history of forming cliques, not sharing, silly in - fighting and ostracism. It broke up into other groups at least two times whilst I persevered as a member and after I was given the brush - off, I stopped going as well. Later on, I was invited to join a group which is 100 km away. It is a very friendly, sharing group and I don't resent the journey to visit with such a stimulating, talented and thoroughly nice bunch of women every month. I heard on the grape - vine that the other group has five members now...it may change in the future.