"told me the other day, (at least this is what I heard)"
Perhaps you should explore with your daughter if what you heard (and what it sounded like to you) was indeed what she meant. I have found that sometimes phrases people use they mean in a different way then I understand them to mean. I can imagine how that must have hurt to hear.
And if after clarifying her meaning you find she has no interest in having quilts or doesn't want to be bothered with finding a home for them after you are gone; sell them or give them to whoever you would like through the many charities.
A woman at a shelter that had to leave an abusive home would find comfort in a quilt, someone who has lost everything in a fire would treasure a quilt, a child in foster care that may have to move to several homes might feel some consistancy in a quilt they can have and take with them.
I find more people love quilts than people who don't. Someone will treasure your quilts. You just have to go out and find them.