Quilting is a wonderful hobby. Just think of all the hobbies that have no end result - nothing to show for money spent. Golf comes to mind (I DO golf, but I also quilt). Do what you enjoy - life is not just the destination - it's the JOURNEY and you have every right to enjoy your journey without feeling badly! People each have their own opinions - not neccesarily right or wrong - just their opinion. Hang in there and enjoy!