I know there are already many suggestions on here but I must say that I agree that unless this is keeping your from your family, putting you in debt or something like this then daughter just does not get it.
There are many children in the hospitals with serious and terminal diseases that would love a quilt to hold on to. I have seen little ones on dialysis and suffering from cancer and their families would appreciate someone caring enough to donate a quilt for their child to stay warm. I pray that your daughter someday finds a passion in life and then she will understand.