keep on doing what you like. i have a son & daughter. i was showing off one of my BOM quilts to them and the son said 'i'd put it on e-bay'. my dtr would keep it for ever. who do you think i'll leave it to? also my two granddaughters (hers) are always fussing at me to quit giving my quilts away & save 'em for them. different strokes for different folks. one thing: maybe you need to cut back on the expensive mat'l & then give all your quilts away to charities, etc. most people don't know the difference between expensive/non-expensive material.