there are so many deserving kids that would enjoy receiving a quilt. Cancer patients, kids p/u by police.child welfare,etc. Besides making quilts is almost a lost art, yea you can buy them,but it's not the same. Keep on quilting and don't listen to what others have to say. Besides, it's good therapy. You are doing what you love, keep on doing it and don't feel guilty or selfish, Gods' blessings.