I'd rather be single than adhere to that list. My husband knows not to expect ANY of those items unless he plans to reciprocate. We both work full-time and we both provided our home. When his male ego tries to show its supposed superiority, it is quickly quenched by the female ego in the house. We each do our own laundry. At times when I am tired of making a decision about what to have for dinner, I will ask him what he plans to serve for dinner. Sometimes he grills and sometimes we eat out when he does not feel like cooking. LOL