What is now 10/11/10 to you is still 10/10/10 to me (I had to write it again, too - I wrote some checks today, just because of that). I used to work for Kodak, and my son went to SUNY Geneseo and worked in Rochester, as well. I was invited to an "online" wedding today from Las Vegas - guess it's cheaper that way. And I agree - it should be a no brainer for DH's to remember their anniversaries. Goodbye from a former upstate New Yorker.