I've been married for 37 years and underwent hip replacement surgery in May. After about a month of no house cleaning by my husband, I mentioned that he needed to do something. His answer was that he was never going to do housecleaning and would pay a service to come in and do it...I told him that while he was at it....tell them to come every 3 weeks because after 37 years of cleaning his house...I was done with that too! Now we're both happy...clean house = more time for quilting.