I use Hobbs 80/20 most often & it quilts nicely. Not too puffy--not too thin. It is not hot or heavy as long as you don't use flannel or small quilting designs like stippling. I have a king size on my bed right now and it is easily washed & dried at home but it is a little thin for colder climates. I made an extra long twin (super single) size quilt using the same batting but flannel for the top & backing & it is so heavy that it has to be washed in a commercial machine.
You can also use an acrylic fleece for the batting. It will be light & fluffy and only minimal quilting or tying needed.
Some people just aren't quilt people. They think a fleece panel of their favorite football team makes the perfect quilt. Others think a wool army blanket is perfect. I don't want either one of those things near my skin when I'm trying to sleep.