There are no "bad" questions or opinions. Just differences.
I quilt depending on the use of the quilt. If it's a cuddle quilt that needs to be cozy and warm, I quilt further apart than if it is an art quilt where the actual stitching is part of the artistic process. It's like comparing apples to oranges, they're totally different.
My mantra is "There are no quilt police" and thank God there aren't!