I went through this with my husband, his family were there for him when he could do things with them or for them, but for HIM?
Well, they were sweet and charming and never seen after he was housebound, only visited him once that I was told about in the 3 years he was in a nursing home.
Surprising at how some family did step up to baby sit him while I shopped for groceries..sister and her hubby both stopped in before and after work, still in uniform. Always wondered what the neighbors must have thought.
If you want to talk about this, PM me and we'll chat about tips on bedridden men and hospital beds, etc.