been there done that, 1st hubby would come home and take out hanki I was up till midnight ironing and go over door sills and window sills, to make sure I had cleanded that day, had to vac, and wash every floor every day, and dust and wax every piece of furniture. dinner had to be on the table when he walked in the door, I even had to take cleanser and scrub brush and get up grease spots from driveway so no one would track it into the house! Does any one why I got a divorce back in 64???