Absolutely right!!!! Presumptuous to say the least. In essence, she didn't ask you to do this. She bought a kit, sent it to you, and expected you to do this. A true friend would never do this. It might be time to re-evaluate your relationship. It is unfortunate that some of our friends marry persons not to our liking, however, I think this situation is more than just your dislike of the husband. Time to re-think this.