This is definatley a tough call however, I agree that once we give a gift we have no control over the actions of the receiver. Some people do not have an appreciation factor of all the time and love poured into their gift. The quilt Gods were definately shining on you and the lady that bought the quilt and sought you out. It seems the quilt wanted to be returned to it's rightful owner who will cherish it always.
Rejoice,
Andie :-D :-D :-D