When we first got married my husband would have me start inviting his family in August for Thanksgiving, that way he knew I would be doing most of the cooking. He couldn't stand the way anyone else in the family cooked, and didn't want his holiday dinner ruined.!! LOL.. He knew it was a lot of work for me, but after dinner, he always made sure he was in charge of cleanup and had everyone else pitch in so I could sit and visit. Gotta luv him!!!