If any of my carefully made quilts ended up being misused, I would be plenty upset. I did make a baby quilt for my neighbor's new grandson and the mom never said thank you or acknowledged it until I happened to see her outside and asked how the baby likes the quilt, she then hesitated Oh! Thank you yes we enjoy it very much. A phone call would of been nice and being an old fart, I would have written a note. Don't people appreciate handwork anymore? No one seems to want to thank or give any acknowledgement. The fabric alone ran me close to $50 but they never think of that. Sorry to vent but it really ticks me off when so much is taken for granted.