Call me I am selfish but the only quilts that I am making to give away are to my 7 grandchildren. I am chosing colors that they like now and I hope that they will like them as they get older. I want them to curl up under their quilt when they are older and remember my love. Also I have several pattern and fabrics that I really like and I am going to keep them for myself. I can not afford to make and give away guilts even to charity. Also my friends and family do not exchange such expensive gifts. I make chemo caps, baby hats, and afgans squares to donate but these are fairly cheap to make.