Sometimes it is a shame to see that some only value something by how much it cost in $$ to make, rather than how much it cost physically and emotionally. No one gets one from me unless I think there is a mutual acceptance of that concept. A male acquaintance of mine gave away a quilt he was given by a lady in his adopted town because he didn't like the indigenous colours and design that she had made them in. As he is not Australian, I am sure she was making an "Australian Quilt" to welcome him. So your point was evidenced there. I personally think it is beautiful - but it is now up for raffle.