One woman made a quilt for her son and daughter-in-law as a wedding gift. It was a double wedding ring and had more than 3,500 pieces. One day she went over to her son's house and saw the quilt in the dog's pen. She took the quilt back with the excuse she was going to wash it. It was never returned.
When our son was married I asked him if they would like a quilt. I didn't get a response, so they got money instead. At least they would use that.