WOW< you do want it all - lol. Welcome from outside Sacramento. I once toyed with the idea of getting an embroidery-sewing machine as well, but then I realized that I either needed to "babysit" the embroidery part or have a second machine to sew on when the embroidery is running, so I opted for a regular machine for now. I hope you find what you are looking for. Test drive as many as you can.
Have fun.