Quilting is NOT a luxury...it is a way to express yourself and to make beautiful items for your home and as gifts for others. It seems, IMHO, that a comment like that from a husband is disrespectful to you as a person. Your mental health depends on having interests and making a quality life for yourself. I am in total agreement with other people's comments about his having a TV, home services, meals, etc. BTW, does HE have any hobbies? All hobbies cost money. I would never wish to stir up conflict in your marriage, but don't lose sight of the fact that each of us has a need to be happy and fulfilled. Good luck. (Also, don't buy a cheap machine...you'll just be frustrated and out $100. Get a previously-owned high quality machine from a reputable store that can provide service and classes.)